Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Sarah Pulham with the following comment:
Samuel Pulham, and Sarah (nee Brame) Pulham are my 3 x great grandparents. I live in Southern England, and have descended from their daughter, Ann Sophia Pulham who moved to Chelsea in London by 1841, and married a publican there called James Ayling. Some of this Pulham family of Suffolk went to America in the 1840's.